The Mirror Affect

Who are you going to believe? The mirror or the eyes of a person who attempts to balance your worth?

A strong individual needs validation from nobody. The key word here in self esteem, is self! You must love your “self”, believe in your “self”, have confidence in your “self”. Nobody can give that to you. If you depend on that, it can be taken away just as quickly as it was given.

Life, menieres, vertigo, and chronic illness will all try to beat you down to your knees. Negative and insecure people will try to base your value on their own twisted reality of who they truly want to be. Oddly, it’s called the mirror affect. It’s never even been about you. Whatever evil words or thoughts they spat towards you, it’s actually their thoughts about their own short comings.

Your happiness with yourself is your choice. Don’t ever give someone else that kind of power over you. Surround yourself with support and encouragement but, do not depend on it to be your core source in believing who you are.

Need a little arrogance to help you change your thinking? “Love me or hate me, both are in my favor. If you love me, I’ll always be in your heart. If you hate me, I’ll always be in your mind” ~Shakespeare

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